Sunday, August 30, 2015

The Superiority Of An Inferior Mind...

When we allow other people to have a hand in decision making that concerns us, at times it can be more of a disadvantage than an advantage.
When we are easily won over by well articulated phrases meant only to exploit our inner beings, we become blind to the truth.
When our minds are filled with ideologies and concepts that are only assumptions and not proven facts,we become puppets too other people as well.
The aspect of influence in all the above-mentioned points manages only to show itself at times when our psychological states are susceptible to any piece of information, whether true or false.
A weak mind takes in without contemplating positive alternatives to a tale, without thought of better conclusions to foul ended problems.
A weak mind is naked too because the specific person is question has become insecure, either to the account of hurt over a long period of time or in the sake of the fact that rumours have spread thus what they hear, they automatically deem as true.
The average human mind is prone to taking in and responding more to negativity by believing and expecting the worst.
That is why when a certain piece of bad news leaks one becomes agitated and forthcoming to it.
Influence changes us, the things we hear make us change our ways.
How?
It modifies the system of our living in fear of being criticized, say for example close friends all turn against you for dating a specific guy or the shun you for not ding something they do.
The most likely outcome is you dumping  your partner or doing what they are doing leaving you personally infuriated, heartbroken, polluted yet fearing to be pointed at, thus you tell yourself you have done the right thing.
The factors that influence our decisions.
These are factors we should monitor closely and before we conclude, try to visualize the outcome of your influenced decision.
If ultimately it leaves you in a wretched state, reconsider immediately.
Jealousy, greed and envy are convenient motives for others to try swaying you.
Develop a strong sense of believing in your ability of rightful judgement and carve your mind from the direction of a gullible nature.
Filter with caution, absorb with precise thought.
 Do not rush into decisions, take your time.
Do not resolve to  impress or to try and change other people's minds.
In so doing you are creating more for them to speak of.
Keep your mind straight
Don't fall for what is not beneficial
Ignore the blasphemous
And only then will you learn of the acceptance of appropriate and positive influence.
Most of all,
Develop in your mind a psychological sieve that takes in the deserving and discards the crude unneeded elements.

Remould the Superiority of your Inferior mind.

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

BEING A SIDE CHICK


The nature of the word side chick brings such evil thoughts to a persons mind. The word Sidechicks paints the women to be such a undignified person a person without morals, one who is inconsiderate. The question to ask is, IS THIS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE?
A sidechick which is simply a modern way of saying a mistress, or a lover, a cheater is a girl that can have many intentions, or let's say there are a variety of sidechicks just like we have many types of meat... We have pork, we have beef, we have mutton etc...
So yes, we have those that are in it to break relationships.. We have those that do it for the excitement of doing it, we have those that find sanctuary in the arms of another woman's man, we also have those that do it for the benefits, the money ,the sex and finally those that do it just because they can.
Well my perception is as follows, the woman is not wrong until she finds out the guy is dating but decides to stay, its not her fault the nigga is good with his words, its not her fault he makes her feel safe, but then it becomes her fault when she finds out she's banging another chikas man but still keeps on it...
Tomorrow, most mainchicks are going to be sidelined so niggas can please they're sidechicks, those kandeshie's, the kamboroto's...
If you're a mainchick you know that regardless of Valentines or not you'll always be there for your nigga... That's why you're gonna tolerate it.. The sidechick is gonna be pleased so she can keep coming back, coz if she aint pleased tomorrow... She aint gone stay for nothing...
Embrace being a sidechick, be happy your a mainchick..
And rejoice that you're a real nigga..
That's whatsup.

DO NOT BE DEFINED!


So what about the past?.
It was there but now it isn't, let bygones be bygones..
Letting past experiences delay your progress is you killing your potential success.
So what about your friends?.
Why let their bad advice, their negative thoughts change how you should live...
Its mind over matter.
You shouldn't mind what doesn't matter.
So what about your haters?.. What about em not liking you..
I mean its their own time their investing and your living rent free in their heads.. Whatever bad their saying should influence what you can achieve..
There'll always be those that don't like you.. But this is life so learn to live with it..
And finally.. So what about your Family and your Parents?.
Why should you let their lives play a role in yours..
Its true your father is unemployed and your mom just sells fatcakes.. But and here is the big BUT, they paid your schoolfees.. They're occupations do not determine weather you are lined up for success or failure..
All this comes from within.
It takes willpower, commitment and ambition.
Do not let your unfortunate family and their reputation have a say in where you are headed...
Life will throw you many obstacles.
People will try to keep you down.
Friends will at some point try to peer influence you
Family situations and origin will have you thinking and wanting to lose hope.
But before any of these things come to mind..
Before this negativity sets in..
Believe in yourself and ask.
So What About It.?
Filter the bad from the good..
Create a clear path to the land of your dreams..
You are young
Stay in line and
Work hard...

Thursday, March 12, 2015

A Tale of Two Decades

20..
I look at the number and think of it as I shift my skin into the comfort of my new age... 
Many around me, congratulate and wish me the best for yet another year added to my 1st fifth of a century..
I look around and see, my thoughts clearer my mind faster my reasoning better.
Like the past 3 years.. This day where I come of age brings me more sorrow, and grief than joy..
Alas, I live I breathe so I am thankful. My mission has not yet changed, it is more acute than ever before now.
Become self reliant, assist those that assisted me on my journey to the top.
I should be feeling different no?
Well I don't... I don't know why I don't feel different...
I am yet to fall into the reality that with my height and my size I am 2 decades old... 
I have lived... I have learned and I'm struggling yet I am not turning back.. The only way I believe in is forward, I know no limitations to progressive positive achievements... I know no bounds.
Happy 20th birthday to myself.

02/02/1995

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

The End Of 2014


This whole week people have been writing their longest last updates of the year, some of how they will change next year some of how they will remaint the same. The pessimists, those ones are buzy updating that there's no use saying you'll change next year... 
But I say.. Change comes from within.. You embrace it as an individual. It is not some journey that should be undertaken in a group if you aim to discover who you really are.

Well say what you want.. Do as you please.. This is the last day of the year..
Do not hesitate to say as you please... We all deserve a clean slate. Othe peoples negativity should not rub off on you, no.. Never.

Well for me 2014 has been an awesome year.. I increased my credibility in a lot of ways.. I achieved what I wanted to and that was taking part in the nationals.. God blessed me with great symbols for my high level results, he gave me extraordinary associates, friends and acquaintances this year.I have some memorable moments in this year for real..
 I dint really lose someone close to me but my heart burned because of the many women we lost gruesomely at the hand of their men.

Even though one year late, I finished school and did it so with flying colours :). When next year comes my ambition will make me thrive more.. I promise to expose myself more.. I promise to make a bigger mark than I did this year.. I promise not to miss any opportunity to become successfull I do not crave to be remembered, I desreve to be remembered.. And as for life I will live it according to the guidance of my Lord.. 
Thank you

Thursday, October 16, 2014

And I Keep Chasing...

The first time i saw you, I remember.
I remember I told myself I would have you
These were words spoken in vain
Words led by illicit desires only
Desires, immoral, unethical and inconsiderate
Desires to prove to my alter ego that I  can have whoever i want.
I approached you, spoke to you.
I charmed you.
Unfortunately that was not enough!
It was not enough to make you grant me what i wanted best for my ego.
An affirmative...
A yes...
No sentiments were present in the beginning.
If there were any, I noticed them nor felt them not.
For your physical being is all i required.
All i wanted.
I failed,
You never gave me the yes i so hoped for.
Never brought me as closed to having you as i imagined.
My pride was damaged.
My masculine demeanor forced me to continue trying to get you an every time i failed
I retreated  to come back another day.
Failure taught me nothing, it only made me bitter.
 I was still not getting you...

It has been well over a year now
And i still haven't given up,
Time has transformed my thoughts.
I no longer want you to prove a point
Or to fulfill my past devious desires.
My yearning has turned genuine.
Time has transfigured crazy infatuation into gentle love.
I wish only to have you as a better half now
To have you assist and keep me going whenever I can not.
I have seen past your ineffable beauty now..
I have spoken to your heart,
Written you essays and odes of proposals,
I've heard you speak at your weakest
Laugh in your joy
Sulk in your pain and I am still around.
Now more than ever
I want to be a part of you.
I am sorry my manly desires would not let me see beyond at first
But now that I do.
Deny me no more
Cause me no more sleepless nights
Torture my thoughts with ''wait till hell freezes over'' not one more day...
I know i began in a fashion that is alien to good but i have learned my fault.
I am for you for I seek change,
I seek one to better me.

You shake your head and say you're not the one I need
But I like an accountant, have calculated, articulated, and analysed
Every possible effect of my quest and
In the end I still get this
WITH YOU I WOULD BE COMPLETE
It's sad
I don't have you because
 I'm still chasing and
You are still running....

Friday, July 11, 2014

INTELLECTUAL NUTRITION

THOUGHTS IN MOTION

1. Tolerance.
Let others live the way they choose to, be a critic only of mind... if spoken, do so to assist not to degrade.

2. Isolation.
In its prime it becomes so loud that the screams of silence echo about the corners of your mind.

3.Silence.
Every moment kept to oneself with no words uttered is a time for innate creations of our minds to come to life.

4.Reservation.
Be fooled not when silence befalls one uncivil to it's nature, it does not always mean problems engulf them, nor does it mean they require your pity or much less sympathy.

5.Dependence.
When happiness becomes dependent on the presence and affiliations of other people, we become miserable.

6.Knowledge.
A fool seeks to be acknowledged and convince he's always right, a wise man seeks only to assist and learn from his faults and those of others.

A Haiku a day can make the pain go away.....