Sunday, January 10, 2016

The Truth In Typed Cursive.!

Dear, Friend, Foe, Ally and Lover of Reading
For the love of the super power that rules the heavens i am appealing for you to be considerate please. be a better you this year, yes it's this BS again, but bear in mind that this is important.
Some of you lead on people while perfectly knowing that you will end up breaking the persons heart after awhile, but you also know that you could have prevented that. Imagine a person you like letting you fall for them just to tell you " nah fam you have got zero chance". Be a person and not some heartless monster, also do not allow your time to be wasted be it dramatic, tell the person how you feel about being a bitch on demand and move on
Times change ey, do not be ruled by looks this is one thing most young girls still fail to understand, he is only handsome that far, and what about ambitions, goals a future, a will to succeed. Does he have that?, if you allow yourself to fall in a trap laid by someone that has no vision both of you will one day find yourselves on a crash and burn mission in the far future. yes you choose who you love but things are changing now, invest in someone that you know will be there for you in every way, maybe not now, but one day, believe.
People that have situations with their ex's, set the record straight, it might be ya'll are just talking but there is always one who eventually always wants the other back again. Don't put a person through that same pain that came from the separation no more, tell them the 411 and move on, if there is hope, let it be known, if there is none, still likewise. You might be meant for one another if you have been through a lot together and believe me you starting over with someone new is not easy, having to retell secrets, make new memories, create new special words, just start that road from the starting line once more, it is just not the same and it takes time and effort plus with every little heartbreak the ability to love fully is diminished a little more. So define your boundaries with your people if it can happen give one another that little hope that someday maybe BUT if you are done then so be it again.
Choose what you know is best for you. If it means leaving some people in the previous year do it. Do not have unnecessary contacts in your phone book if they are just there to add to the numbers, if someone does not vibrate on the same frequency as you, make peace with that and move on, you were not created to live in every individual you see or knows life. God created people for you just like he created your special person, do not force situations, let go and be emancipated from the worry of "but why does she/he or they not like me, understand that you cannot be everybody's favourite you are your own person,concentrate on making yourself an amplified upgraded version, eg if you were David last year this your make yourself DavidS like the iphone. Walk with people that know that you on about an make sure you achieve ad hoc.
That bad habit, be it smoking drinking, too much sex, disobedience,pride or whatever it is. Make changes with who you are and let go of what you subliminally know does not build you. Grow from your despair and thrive to slay. Leave behind what you know holds you back, that which stains your reputation, makes you a blacksheep. If it can be changed by you, alter it and modify yourself to be a person you can look up to, be your own icon, craft your own role model in your image, Very few situation give you happiness like the joy to be derived from achieving what other people say you can't or will never do. And ey if 3 beers get you drunk drink 2, if going out every weekend makes you broke real fast, go out once or twice a month. With the correct willpower those unwanted bad habits or guilty pleasures can become history, the change starts with you.
Yes it was long but congratulations if you reached this point, i cannot make you do as above mentioned but I hope what sunk in sunk deep. Try to live according to what you deem is righteous and good, you can have fun but do not lose yourself in the process, never forget who you are, where you come from and where you hope one day to be.

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